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3" Dear Abby: Wife Stuck With His 'Brood' Suzanne Owens, Robert Paine Wed lationship lacks unselfishness, mutual respect and the deep down tenderness which is the foundation for all satisfying married love. Without these, eex is just a mechanical operation, leaving both parties unfulfilled. Tell them, Abby, but think your beloved mother liked it, too. DEAR ABBY: I work in a bookstore and have on several occasions had young women ask me for books of "sex techniques," with their hus Charles Rodman Porter of Austin and the late Mr. Owens.

Mr." and Robert Paine of Marshall ire the parents bridegroom. graduate of the United States Air Force Academy. Given in marriage by her stepfather, the bride wore a crepe and organza gown which featured ah Empire bodice and short puffed ves of Venetian lace. A headband of fresh stephanotis held her veil of illusion. She carried a cascade of stephanotis and white orchids.

Miss Sallv Ann at i bands standing npf there. They say their husbands NEED them. I've even heard them quarreling with their husbands, insisting that they buy such a book, and of course, in so doing, they are putting down their husbands as lovers. Abby, please tell these women that all the "book learned" techniques in the world wont help if their re in Whirl Franklin Jones Jr. at their home on Port Caddo.

Chips, dips, cold drinks were served, as guests played ping ppng, listened to records and swam. A buffet supper was served from the cabana. Mrs. Jones presented a gift to the honoree. Classmates attending with the honoree were Buddy King, Sandra Shafer, Jerry Kemper, Brenda Shirley, James Tabb, Ruby Parker, David Lewis, Prpnshau Rennv Rrnil.

MRS. ROBERT former Miss Second Lieutenant and Mrs. Robert Leland Paine will make their home in Sacre-tnento, Calif, when she completes her current school year at the-University of Texas "Tie is stationed with the Air Force at Mather in Sacrementn. They took a wedding trip to North Texas following their marriage Saturday afternoon at the University United Methodist Church in Austin. The Rev.

William Holmes officiated. The bride, the former Miss Suzanne Owens, has attended Trinity University and while at UT has been employed by the Austin Public Library. She is the daughter of Mrs. Paines Host Dinner Party Mr. Mrs.

Hibort I. Paine entertained on Friday evening with a dinner party honoring fbej" son, Sec. Lt. Robert Inland Paine and his tride to be Miss Suzanne Owens. The dinner was held in the Silo o.

the Barn in Austin. of majestic daisies decorated the tables. S. Paine, grand'ather of the groom, offered the toast to the bridal couple. Miss 0rrs and Mr.

Paine chose this occasion to present gifts to their attendants. Sharing the occasion were Mr. and Mrs. Rodney Porter, Mr. and Mrs.

L. S. Paine, the Rev. and Mrs. William Holmes, Mr.

and Mrs. Bobb Dupuy, Lt. and Mrs. Ralph Hagins, Lt. Tommy Solomon, fapt.

Jim King, Misses Sarah Thornton, Sally Mayne, Patty Coyle, Jennifer Townsend, Penny Porler, Mary Martin and Messrs. Fred Hagans, Danny Garrigan and Alan Watts. Women's News MARSHALL NEWS MESSENGER TUESDAY AFTERNOON, MAY LanT ssard, Neala Wilson, Tommy MHS Choirs Will Present Concert Armstrong, Rosanne Hernandez, Dennis LeGuin, Kathy Ammerman, Bob Young, Kathy Hord, Charles Abraham, Jan York, Jimmy Anderson, Regina Emery, Larry Taylor, Terry Powell, LELAND PAINE Suzanne Owens 1J70 Page C. state choir member; being one of the featured choirs at the Carol Service; singing at the half-time of a football game; performing for the Lions Club on four separate occasions; singing for the Rotary Club, the Music Club, the Symphony League; singing in the Christmas tee lighting; taking part in the Lions Loonies; and numerous other activities, according to Brock. The program will consist of the Girls Choir singing "Aquarius," "A Blessing" by Shaw, "Vere Languores Nostms" by and "Sound the Trumpet" by Purcell.

The Mixed Choir wit sing "Thou Must Leave Thy Lowly Dwelling" by Berlioz, "Psallite'' by PraetoriuSi "Tell-Tale Heart" by Habash. and "Try a Little Tenderness" by Coniff. The Choralettes will offer "Johnny Has bone ror a Soldier, "Waters Ripple and Flow" by Taylor, "Ave Maria" by Kodaly, and "What Now My I)ve." The Concert Choir will close the program with "When Johnny Comes Marching Home," "This Guy's in I)e With You," "E'en so, Lord Jesus, Quickly Come," by Manz, Haydn's "Evening Song to God," "Song of Galilee" by Chajes, and "Hymn for Our Time" by Beck. Admission is $1 for adults and 50 cenits for students. Carol Newman In Senior Recital that-if each thinks primarily of pieasmg the otner, tneyii need no marriage manuals to thrill each other.

JUST A CLERK DEAR JUST: No one could have said it better. Thank you for writing. EvtryBotfy hm orim, WKrt't yours? For personal reply wit to Abby. Bo Wuu. LOS AngelM.

Col. 90069 and endoi a (tamptd. wlf-oddmMd envtloot. Socially David Godwin, Dixie Boules, Monica Lewis, Beverly Cook, Betsy Anderson, Leah Baldwin, Wally Cook, Franklin Jones III and Terry Jones. tssisting with the serving were the honoree's parents Mr.

and Mrs. Walter Cook Jr. and Mr. and Mrs. Doyle Curry, and Dr.

and Mrs. R. L. Koeni. INFORMAL PARTY Mrs.

Jim Hartt and Mrs. Leo Long entertained for Beverly Kerr at a cold drink party ot tho nna hnmo nn Stoviart Spring flowers decorated the party rooms and buffet serving table. The honoree was presented a gift from the hostesses. Twenty guests shared the occasion. CAROL NEWMAN natonal Guild of Student Musicians, and her high school diploma in music, at the close of the recital.

Making the presentation will be her piano teacher. A reception will conclude the evening in Fellowship Hall of the church. Misses Sharon Newman and Wanda Cooner will preside at the lace laid table centered with an ar rangement of spring flowers. SPAGHETTI MACARONI EGG NOODLES Beaf the high cost of eating. By ABIGAIL VAN BUREN DEAR ABBY: I finally found the ideal husband: handsome, promising career and a position in society.

The only thing wrong is that he has two children by a pre- -Viouimarriagel Before we were married, I made up my mind to be a patient and understanding stepmother, because I realized his "ex" wasn't the world's greatest mother, and these children never got the supervision and attention they needed. Believe me, Abby, I have tried, but these children are difficult! They are rude, selfish and ill-behaved. My husband, wanting to be a "good" father, agreed to take the children on weekends, so now I am the one who has to entertain them while their mother is free to enjoy herself every week-end. I love my husband, but I didn't wait until I was almost 30 to get married and babysit with somebody else's children. Any suggestions? DISGUSTED DEAR DISGUSTED: Yes.

Get used to it, because that's part of the price you paid when you married their father. You may decide in time that the price was too high, in which case no one will have to tell you what to nave iu urn ju i ta meantime, keep trying to be "a Datient ana un- derstanding stepmother." You may be able to teach those unfortunate children more than their mother has. DEAR ABBY: Just because 300 years ago someone decided that black was the thing to wear to a funeral, eyeryone has done just that. When my beloved mother passed away, I wore a yellow suit because that was the color mom liked best on me. I wore it not because I thought I looked better, but because it made me feel Ruth Class Has Social The Ruth Class of First Church met Thursday night in the home of Mrs.

A. J. Blakeley for the monthly social and business meeting. Mrs. Ruth Neely, president, presided.

Summer socials were discussed along with plans to increase attendance. Mrs. George Ross, introduced by Mrs. Will Power, presented the devotional "Changing Our Lives" from the new edition of "The Art of Living." Refreshments were served by Mrs. Blakeley to Mmes.

Moseley, W. F. Hill, J. E. Rains, Neely, Power, C.

L. Cooke, O. T. Graham, L. A.

Fugler, Robert Salmon, Fred Simmons, and pests Mrs. Ross and Mrs. M. M. Mauldin.

interest is in railroads. His study concerns the entry of early railroads into the Long-view area. In the preparation of his paper, he used files of the Marshall New? Messenger and interviewed railroad men. The life and accomplishments of James Hogg, while he was in Longview as first publisher of the Longview News, is the material covered in Mrs. Goldy's paper.

Her 'research is based upon correspondence ith Miss Ima Hogg and Dr. Robert Cotner, biographer of Gov Hogg. She also used old copies of the Longview News. better. (Yes, I was criticized later for it.) When the minister perform- ed the funeral service, he told us to remember all the good times we had together, and I found myself sitting there with a mileca mx facere: calling all the wonder'ul times and the many laughs my mom and sisters and.

I had together: (I was criticized for that, too.) Wearing a color and a smile on your face is not a sign of disrespect. LOVED MOM DEAR LOVED: The, manner in which one handles his grief is highly personal. I like yours. AndJ can't help Seniors The social whirl was merry this weekend when May graduates were entertained at a luncheon, breakfast, lake party, splash party and informal cold drink parly. LUNCHEON Mrs.

Ken Everett and daughter, Pam entertained Sunday with a luncheon at their home on the Fern Lake Road as a compliment to three graduates-elect. Honorees were Suzanne Branham, Cathy Cooke and Alta Jordan. ako uenaing was vnwiy Miniature bird houses and bird baths encircled the arrangement of spring daisies and purple statice to form the centerpiece of the luncheon table. Gifts marked the places of the honorees. BREAKFAST Seven senior girls were feted at a pancake breakfast Sunday morning at Barry's, hosted by Mrs.

Lloyd White-hurst. Honorees were the hostess' daughter Debra Whitehurst, Gaynelle Campbell, Candy Knight, Janie Morrison, Millicent Moseley, Leila Van Norden, and Joy Spruiell. Guests were mothers of the honorees including Mmes. Bobby Campbell, Tommy Knight, Jane Moseley, James Van Norden, D. L.

Spruiell and Miss Morrison's sister, Brenda Morrison. The registration table held small pink carnation corsages hich were pinned on mothers of the honorees. Also enhancing the registry were a large white diploma tied in the class colors of pink and purple, a single purp'e candle and an arrangement of violets. Each honoree's place was marked with a pink registration book, bearing the name of the honoree and tied with a miniature diploma which were later signed by each one in attendance. Centering the breakfast table was a wrought iron candelabra arrangement of purple tapers and cascading pink carnations.

Seven pink and purple corsages flanked the focal point. The corsages were pinned on the honorees by their mothers and Miss Morrison's sister. LAKE PARTY Dr. and Mrs. John R.

Cullum and Mr. and Mrs. Reece Brooks honored their sons, Brandon Cullum and Reece Brooks with an outing at Lake O' the Pines. Guests enjoyed boating, swimming and skiing. A barbecue supper was served to the honorees and Sue Ellen Boaze.

Rae Moore, Debby Carrico, Celia Barnes, Gary Laughlin, Kenneth Coppall, Dana Ramsey, John Oden, Betty Smith and Paul Cullum. The hosts presented gifts to their sons. SPLASH PARTY Lenora Ann Cook was honoree at a swimming party hosted: by Mr. and Mrs. Events of the Week Wednesday DeMo'ay Mothers Club meets at 7:15 p.m.

at the Masonic Hall. Thursday The Golden Age Club will meet at 9 a.m. at the Corral Club. The Marshall Duplicate Bridge Club is to meet at 7 p.m. in Town Hall of the Corral Club.

Eureka Lodge, Knights of Pythias, will meet at 7:30 p.m. at the KP Hall. Marshall Chapter 35fi, Order of Eastern Star is to meet at 7: 30 p.m. in the Masonic Hall. The Harrison County Historical Society meets at 7:30 p.m.

in the Assembly Room of the old courthouse. Ore City Dance Pupils In Recital Tonight tended the bride as maid of honor, and Miss Jennifer Townsend was bridesmaid. They wore long-sleeved gowns of green, blue, pink, gold and white border printed voile, and carried colonial bouquets of daisies, pink asters, blue statice and gold mums. Ralph Todd Hagins of San Antonio was best man, aad groomsman was Fred Hagans. For her daughter's wedding, Mrs.

Porter chose a blue silk shantung with matching accessories. The bridegroom's mother wore a shell pink silk linen and lace dress with pink accessories. Their corsages were of cymbidium orchids. A reception followed at Green Pastures honoring the newlyweds. Out of town guests were Miss Sarah Thornton of Terrell; Mr.

and Mrs. L. S. Paine, grandparents of the bridegroom, Marshall; Mr. and Mrs.

Wilford Brown, Calvert; Mr.and Mrs. John R. Devens. Mrs. Terry Speed, Lake Jackson; Mr.

and Mrs. James McDent, Longview; Mr. and Mrs. Frank Brown, Mr. and Mrs.

Paul Arnold, Dallas; Mr. and Mrs. Robert James, Mrs. Paul Driver and Linda of Houston. The program will open with the Charleston performed by Janet and Mary Weir, Gina Vercher and Marie Modisette.

They will also do Harper Valley, Exactly Like You, and for the closing number, Pompom. Dancing to For Me and My Ga'. will be. Rickey Taff, Lee Ann Duke, Selena and Carla Morgan. They will also present the number Honey.

Alley Cat Tappers will be ratricia Newsom Karen Bar- nett, June Meadows and Mark Modisette. They wiE be featured in Lazy River Jazz. Somewhere My Love and Cool-Cool Tappers will feature Joni Goodson, Dana Holland, Lu Ann Cockrill, Cindy McAlexander and Sherry Newsom. In Petite Pointe, So What's New and Lady Be Good wO be Rhonda Campbell, Tanya Terry, Louanne Lattimore, Lynne Settle, Kathleen and Helen Stoermer, Robin Newsom. Several numbers wit be presented by the Marshall School.

Dick and Tara Bray will be the Umber Clowns. Performing to Sunny will be Karen Duncan, Sharon Brown, Denise Harris, Cathy Schnor-bus, Patty Wright, Candy Davids on, Sylvia Herrin, Diane Henderson, Cheryl Cox, Wilkerson, Angie Taylor, ana Meyers. Participating in School Days will be Laurna Everitt, Tracy Lary, Melanie Willaert, Kim Cook, Pam Lane. Sarah Benezue, and Lynn Fox. The public is invited to the recital.

Classes will resume Sept 12. HARLETON Carol Newman, pupil of Mrs. H. R. Taylor, will be presented in a senior recital Tuesday evening at the Harleton Baptist Church.

The event will complete her course in piano, leading to a diploma in music, awarded by the National Guild of Piano Teachers. Miss Newman, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Woodrow Newman of Lake O' the Pines, will be an honor graduate of Jefferson High School this month. She plans to attend Stephen F.

Austin State University at Nacogdoches where she will major in music. For the past four years she has entered the Auditions and won National honors and membership in the National Guild of Student Musicians. This year she is ranking as an international student by playing a 15 piece program. Her program will consist of a Prelude and a Fugue by Bach, Sonata Pathetique, which includes allegro, adagio, and rondo by Beethoven and two lighter numbers, a waltz by Chopin and Birtterfly by Merkel. Miss Joy Newman, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. John Newman of Harrison will assist by presenting several vocal selections, including Love Theme from "Romeo and The Sound of Music and Be the Best of Whatever You Are. She will be accompanied by Mable Taylor Norman, daughter of Mrs. Taylor. The senior pianist will re ceive a pin and certificate of membership in the Inter- The Marshall High School Choirs will present a spring concert at 7:30 p.m.

Tuesday in the school auditorium. The concert will be the final appearance of all MHS choirs for the current season, according to Mike Brock, director. On the program will be the Girls Choir, Mixed Choir Choralettes, and Concert Choir. Accompanists will be Vickie Davis, Cindy Grimes, Katherinc Hightower, Susanne Huffman, Glennda Link, and Mollie Strack. The choirs have had a busy year in placing 15 in the All-Region Choir; having six all-state candidates and one all- Tea Shower ifrMrklirtnfrc OMipiirnclllb Bride-Elect NEWS MESSENGER NEWS SERVICI DAINGERFIELI) Miss Betty, Dawn Perkison, bride-' elect of Thomas Griffin, was honored at a recent tea-shower in the home of Mrs.

Donna Bell Fomby. Spring flower arrangements were placed at vantage points through the party rooms. Receiving guests were the honoree, her mother, Mrs. T. S.

Perkison; mother of the bridegroom-to-be, Mrs. H. C. Griffin; his grandmother, Mrs. Perry Wallace of Omaha; Mrs.

Griffin of Bryan's-Mill and Mrs. Fomby. The refreshment table draped in a white satin cloth, was centered with a massive arrangement of while carnations accented with two white doves. Serving party refreshments were Mrs. Beth Mc- Murrough of Hope, and Mrs 0tjs Cline of 0maha- (Xher members of the house party included Mrs.

Elmer Harris, Stamps; Miss Debbie Owens and Miss Barbara Fomby of Daingerfield. Miss Pamela Forrest presided at the guest book. League Has -Lake Outing Members of the Rainey Civic League concluded the current club ea with a tour of i Island, Caddo State Park and lunch at Shady Glade Camp at Uncertain. Pictures were made throughout the afternoon. A gift of appreciation was presented to retiring president Mrs.

Roby Key. Participating were the following club members and guests: Mrs. Ella Wells, Mrs. Key, Mrs. E.

J. Pepper, Mrs. Minnie Brown, Mrs. Lucille Goodman, Mr. and Mrs.

A. Jacks, Mr.1 and Mrs. Jack Kelley, Mr. and Mrs. H.

C. Jenkins, Mr. and Mrs. Sam Stringfellow, Mrs. Grace McDonald, Mrs.

Carl Cowles, Mr. and Mrs. L. J. Box.

LeTourneau Students On Historical Program ORE CITY The Lois Faust Ore City Dance studemts will be presented in spring recital at 7:30 p.m. Tuesday in the Ore City High School cafetorium. Tawankas Have Slumber Party The Tawanka Camp Fire Girls ended their activities with a spend-the-night party on Friday at Camp WaCanTa under the supervision of Mrs. Jim Williams and Mrs. Dick Berry.

Highlights of the occasion were a cook-out and a compass hike. Attending the outing were Anne Wdliams, Debbie Berry, Angela Aucoin, Frances Ver-halen, Carol Fisher, Sharon McCall, Lorraine Kerr, Susan Dudley, M'liss Berry, Peggy Ellard and Mmes. Williams and Berry. Group activities will resume in the fall. Take It Of And Fqst! (Excess Fat, That Is) LOSE 10 LBS.

IN 10 DAYS ON SENSATIONAL GRAPEFRUIT WET AND THEN V2 LBS. EVERY TWO DAYS UNTIL YOU ARE DOWN TO YOUR PROPER WEIGHT. A copy of this sUrtlingly successful diet plan can be obtained by sending OO to Diet Specialists P. O. Box 61 Washington, Iowa 523S3 (myteethY FELL I Papers written by students of the historiography class at LeTourneau College, Long- view, will be presented at the.

meeting of the Harrison County Historical Society at 7:30 p.m. Thursday in the assembly room of the old courthouse. The students, Mrs. Betty Berry, Miss Mary Knowies and Antonio Rengifo, are history majors. Mrs.

Berry, wife of Prof. Richard Berry of the Engineering Department, will present a paper on the community of Earpsville. Sources for her research were found in the Gilmer courthouse and in the census records for 1860. Miss Knowies will present information about the Lothrop well and East Texas oil field. A resident of Longview, Miss Knowies spent her early life in Liberia.

She did her research in copies of the Long-view News published in the 1930's. Mr. Rengifo, a native of Peru, has studied the careers of early Longview mayors with emphasis upon the career of Mayor W. D. North-cutt.

Information for his paper was located in Long-view City records prior to 1898. Prof. Selby and Prof. Berry will give highlights of papers written by Niilo Korpi and Mrs. Ettie GoWy.

Mr. Korpi's WE'LL GO overboard to fill your doer tor's prescriptions promptly and The Eldon Williams MUSICAL KINDERGARTEN invites you to its Annual Graduation Operetta "VEDDIIIG OF THE FLOWERS" 8 P.M. Friday, May 22nd at the City Auditorium (No Admission Charge) Registration for Foil Term Now Being Accepted Cotl Mrs. Robert Williams 933-7700 or Mrs. J.

R. Perkins 938-4563.